Marriage and Family

“Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it.” – Psalm 127:1 (KJV)

God’s Design for Marriage

Marriage was never man’s idea — it was God’s. From the beginning, the Lord created marriage as a holy covenant between one man and one woman, a sacred union that reflects His own faithfulness and love.
In Eden, before there was a nation, a church, or a government, there was a marriage — a picture of divine fellowship and purpose.

At Abide in Christ the True Vine, we believe that marriage is more than companionship; it is ministry. It is the visible expression of Christ’s invisible grace. When husband and wife walk together in covenant love, they reveal to the world the beauty of the gospel — “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh… This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.” (Ephesians 5:31–32)

Our Vision for Marriage and Family Ministry

Our goal is to restore the biblical foundation of marriage and strengthen families through the transforming power of God’s Word.
We desire to see couples who not only stay together, but grow together — rooted in forgiveness, guided by grace, and empowered by the Holy Spirit.

We believe that when the family is strong, the Church is strong. When homes are governed by love, humility, and truth, the light of Christ shines into generations.

Core Teachings We Emphasize

  • Covenant, Not Contract – Marriage is a divine promise, not a private agreement. God Himself stands as the witness between husband and wife (Malachi 2:14).

  • Christ at the Center – Every thriving marriage has Jesus as its foundation and His Word as its guide.

  • Grace in the Home – Forgiveness, patience, and kindness are not optional; they are the fruit of abiding in Christ.

  • Shared Responsibility – Both husband and wife are called to serve, submit, and love in humility — reflecting Christ’s servant heart.

  • Parenting in Faith – Families are entrusted with the sacred task of raising children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4).

  • Healing and Restoration – No marriage is beyond redemption when Christ is invited to reign.

Our Belief About Family

Our Commitment

Family is God’s first training ground for love, faith, and character. We believe that every home can become a sanctuary — a place where Scripture is read, prayer is practiced, forgiveness is lived, and joy is restored.

Strong families are not built on wealth or education, but on obedience to God’s Word. When Christ is enthroned in the home, peace reigns and generations are blessed.

“And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve… but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.” – Joshua 24:15 (KJV)

At Abide in Christ the True Vine, we are committed to walking with couples and families through every season — from preparation to restoration.
We teach that grace, not perfection, sustains marriage. Our desire is to see homes become altars of worship, where love flows freely, truth is honored, and Christ is adored.

If your marriage is thriving, we are here to help it grow deeper.
If your marriage is struggling, we are here to help it heal.
If you are single and preparing for marriage, we are here to help you build wisely on the Rock.

Join the Journey

📖 Attend a Grace in Marriage session
🎧 Listen to our family teachings online
💬 Request counseling or prayer
🌿 Partner with us to strengthen marriages and homes around the world

Together, let’s build marriages that mirror Christ and homes that bear lasting fruit.

📘 Grace in Marriage: Walking Together in Forgiveness, Unity, and Love

This book is a heartfelt guide for couples who desire to build their marriage on the unshakable foundation of grace. It explores how forgiveness restores broken trust, how unity reflects the heart of God, and how love thrives when rooted in Christ’s example.

Each chapter draws from Scripture, real-life insights, and spiritual principles that help couples replace striving with surrender, blame with grace, and fear with faith. Grace in Marriage is not just a teaching — it’s a journey that invites every husband and wife to rediscover the joy of walking together under God’s covenant of love.

It is especially written for those who long to rebuild, reconnect, and reflect Christ in their relationship, whether newly married or seasoned in years.

📗 Are Godly Parents Guaranteed Godly Children?

This powerful and thought-provoking book addresses a question many Christian parents wrestle with. It reminds us that while godly parenting is a sacred duty, salvation and faith are ultimately personal choices each child must make before God.

Drawing from Scripture and real family experiences, this book helps parents understand their true role — to guide, nurture, and model faith, while trusting God for the work only He can do in the heart. It challenges the notion of inherited faith and points families back to God’s sovereignty, grace, and timing.

Are Godly Parents Guaranteed Godly Children? is a message of hope and release — freeing parents from guilt, fear, and pressure, and empowering them to raise their children in love and prayer while leaving the outcome to God.